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well if its worth anything,we all feel like that sometimes.
take for example the most recent o level results...lol took me awhile to get over it
"NO offence"
well, if u want the ugly truth its fine
but i prefer a subtle way to know something
i take things in my stride
anyway on contrary, im neither pissed nor offended,i mean this in most honesty.
im actually very glad you responded to my blog. brilliant.
so ive been reading your lengthy post :P
and lets see...
why i like the get personal?
well maybe because its easier to settle things this way, on a bigger level, some messages i maybe sending across maybe misinterpreted. it might be unknowningly ignored.Rather, on a personal level, we get the points through easily. Of course down side is the potentially heated argument that may turn nasty but i decided these are risk i would rather take compared to the other party not getting my idea.
but i dun quite agree with the "I feel MOST PEOPLE are very shallow and superficial" part,
since i assume u are concern for ken substentiated by
"But if you are speaking to a person that you care about and are concerned for,I'm sure speaking nothing BUT THE TRUTH will help rather than telling lies."
so i conclude there are people around the world just like yourself, maybe not many but yes there are more than AFEW
and the wife part....
well lets just say ill take option A
"Understanding a person (I didn't said truely understanding)is more important than trying to force a change on a person.Everyone hates changes (correct me if I'm wrong) so rather than trying to change a person,why not change yourself instead and try to understand others and see from thier point of view"
yes sometimes changing a person is near-impossible but that doesn't mean we have to change ourselves.CHange is good but yet i find it important to stand-by ur own values. From time to time we can change for the others but yet again we also must let others change for u.
Just contiuning I quote " I don't deny I'm not stubborn to a certain extent" , that means that sometimes u must not change for other people.
"so why not make it a little good done for a greater good?"
life dictates opportunity.
take for example,during the crusades, lord balion didn't marry the king of jeruselem's sister and allowed another knight to do so, indirectly causing the fall of jeruselem to the mulims.we shall not go into detail but by marrying the king's sister, they could have avoided this( a little evil).
abit confusing? maybe it just means that we do not command cirumstance.
it commands us.
the next thing is on ken
we were just encourging him to take a arguably better path.
like i explained to him, if he can or cannot, its up to him.
and the example u gave on maths....
well im sure we all loath studying as a whole, just maybe u and i abhorr sci too,
but sometimes we do what must be done ie,studying.
hence we still succeed even though we hate it.
of course without passion to succeed is to be miserable because u do not like what u do
but self-discipline is the ability to carry on with something even though u do not like it because its the right thing to do.
COP.
this year >>18
Next year best? >> 15?
aim> 10?
why?
this is just in case he must wanna change course?
issit possible ken may want something even better?
maybe he wants to switch to jc?
getting a 10 guarentees his ability to change places.
"Knowing you can do it dosen't actually mean you can achieve it"
but its a step in achieving it.
"IS IT WORTH PAYING THE PRICE"
that only u can decide. was the price of freedom worth millions of lifes?
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on a more personal note:
i think my outlook perspective is fine
let me go do a little test survey :)))))
lol.
