hmmm can't help pondering stuff while reading zy's blog again.
in no offence or anything
assuming that im correct,i would think he sees me as very narrowed in my point of view
and i should "change my outlook"
but u know,i would to like to differ on that and apply it to himself directly.
with all due respect, i think my stands are infact considered with alot more perspective than others. i always make an effort to tamper cynicism and a more realist view.
instead i think that zy should actually change his instead of advising me to change mine.
instead of calling us(the people who disagree with him) stubborn...ect why not take a look at himself, can't u be the stubborn one? just maybe you could be.
in a most polite way i can put it, a review of one self is alot more important and knowing others,
self-awareness allows u to consider ur own strengths and weaknesses. anyway futhur on in his blog he mention about saying what u mean and hypocrasy.
ive learn that begin totally truthful doesn't work in this modern world these days, mixing and tampering truth and little bit of lies is the best combination it has. if u are to remain totally in truth,in the working world, u will be slaughtered, office politics are abit nasty if u don't know how to care for urself. now does that mean ur dishonourable? or dispeakable? i wouldn't call it that. anything done in for a positive sense is always good. or as best phrased that every thing has a time when it comes in conflict with its own values. sometimes a little evil has to be done for a greater good. despite saying all this, it doesn't mean what i say to ken was bullshit. i did consider what i said and yes it still depends on him for only when u think u can do it Then u really can do it. if he starts off saying some shit about getting F9s,then no one can help him. we can only advise his next course of action, we cannot walk the road for him.
ending off, i did say life was complicated didn't i :) heh .. no use denying the fact we are all pressured and well in a way depressed :P well good luck on the course all
